In life, we have two ways of living: getting and receiving. Both ways can support us, but they feel very different. When I’m getting, I’m the one in charge. But when I’m receiving, I’m the one being helped.

When I focus on getting, I think about words like work, earn, achieve, deserve, and ambition. These words are connected to how I feel about myself. I see my life as a result of my hard work and success. I might think, “This is my house,” or “I have to do well at my job.” I want to hold on to what I have. This can lead to fear because if my success is all about what I can do, then anything can be taken away from me.

But there’s another way to live: receiving. When I’m receiving, I’m the one being blessed. I think about words like gifts, kindness, and grace. These words don’t depend on what I do; they remind me that I get things without needing to earn them. Instead of worrying about losing what I have, I feel humble, amazed, and grateful. I think, “Why do I deserve this?” Instead of my efforts being the center of my life, it’s all about Grace, the Giver.

When I look at my life, I see both ways are there. No one can do everything by themselves; we all have responsibilities. But I’m often surprised by how much of my life comes from the receiving side. I didn’t earn sunsets, laughter with family, fresh air, or moments of joy. These gifts are given to me. The Bible reminds us that everything we have is a gift:

“What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Cor. 4:7, NIV).

Even my paycheck is proof that I’ve received help along the way. I wasn’t born with nothing, and everything that comes next is not just earned; my very existence is a gift! My whole life is a great grace!

This idea doesn’t just apply to material things; it also relates to my spiritual life. God doesn’t have different rules for physical and spiritual blessings. I need to remember that my soul grows by grace, not by how well I perform. My spiritual journey is also about receiving. This doesn’t mean I don’t have responsibilities as a Christian; I still need to follow and obey. But even my ability to respond and grow comes from God’s grace. Spiritual growth isn’t measured by what I achieve; it’s about recognizing and receiving God’s endless generosity.

These thoughts are especially relevant around Thanksgiving. Families gather to celebrate God’s gifts, and congregations come together to praise the “Giver of All Good Things.” The truths we share and the blessings we enjoy go beyond just one holiday. So, how can I stay grateful all year long? It helps to see my life as a gift that I’ve received. Some might say this attitude leads to laziness or entitlement. But I believe that God is willing to take that risk with grace. Plus, I’ve seen that those who recognize life as a gift don’t become lazy; they grow in freedom, gratitude, generosity, and praise. Those are wonderful gifts to receive!